My whole world feels upside-down, I noticed she was tearful, and her whole body was shaking. I asked her to tell me more. She said, I found a secret phone with lots of names of women on it. I called a few of the numbers, the women answered in a sexy voice with my husbands name. She then began sobbing. I waited. Her sorrow deserved respect and even honer. She had just experienced the ultimate betrayal of intimate partners. She needed time to allow the shock of what she discovered to sink in. Healing from this type of betrayal can take years.
As a counselor specializing in working with partners who are married to a sex addict, I hear stories like this every day. Here are a few ways a partner finds out about a sex addicts behavior; read more¦.