I believe that healing after betrayal requires more than insight, techniques, or positive thinking.
It requires emotional containment, nervous-system safety, and a depth-oriented process that honors your dignity and readiness.
My life’s work is to guide midlife women who have experienced betrayal, emotional abandonment, or relational trauma into a place of calm, clarity, and self-respect.
Not back into survival.
Not into endless processing.
But into emotional sovereignty and empowered living.
I work with women who are intelligent, capable, and high-functioning on the outside — and deeply hurt, exhausted, or disoriented on the inside.
Many of the women I work with have:
• experienced partner betrayal or emotional abandonment• lived with anxious attachment or emotional over-functioning• lost their sense of self in a long-term relationship• carried unspoken grief, anger, or shame• tried therapy before without experiencing deep change• felt unseen or uncontained in previous healing work
They are not looking to be rescued.
They are ready to take responsibility for their healing and build a calm, empowered life.
I do not practice surface-level therapy.
My work is trauma-informed, depth-oriented, and paced for nervous-system safety and long-term integration.
I integrate:
• betrayal trauma healing• attachment repair• EMDR-informed processing• nervous-system regulation• emotional containment• depth-oriented relational work
This is not quick-fix therapy.
We do not rush healing.We do not bypass pain.We do not reinforce victim consciousness.
Instead, we build:
• emotional stability• self-trust• healthy boundaries• relational clarity• internal safety• sovereign decision-making
This is healing that honors your dignity, your maturity, and your long-term wellbeing.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over two decades of experience specializing in betrayal healing, relational trauma, and attachment repair.
I am certified as a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), and I am EMDR-trained through EMDRIA.
I have trained in Attachment-Focused EMDR through the Parnell Institute and bring a trauma-informed, ethically grounded approach to my work.
More importantly than any credential, I bring:
• clinical maturity• long-term pattern recognition• ethical depth• calm presence• spiritual attunement• relational wisdom
I do not commodify pain.I do not perform therapy.I do not rush transformation.
I hold space for real healing with dignity, containment, and respect.
Working with me is a collaborative, contained, depth-oriented process.
Clients often describe my presence as:
• calm
• grounded
• attuned
• steady
• direct without being harsh
• compassionate without rescuing
You can expect:
• trauma-informed pacing
• emotional containment
• honest reflection and gentle challenge
• nervous-system-safe processing
• long-term integration
• clarity over chaos
This is not symptom management.
This is identity-level healing that supports emotional sovereignty and life clarity.
My work is not for everyone.
I work best with women who are:
• emotionally mature• ready for deep healing• open to honest self-reflection• willing to engage in contained, long-term work• able to invest in their healing• seeking calm, clarity, and self-respect• done with surface-level therapy
I am not the right fit for women who:
• are in active crisis• are seeking quick fixes• want validation without growth• are unwilling or unable to invest financially• want a therapist to fix their partner• prefer highly directive, surface-level approaches
Readiness matters here.
If you feel a quiet resonance with my work and believe you are ready for deep, trauma-informed healing, you are welcome to request a consultation.
Consultations are brief, structured, and designed to assess mutual fit.
This is not a therapy session.
It is a clarity conversation.
Your readiness matters here.